It’s a paradox we see everywhere on social media: one moment it’s a video promoting self acceptance and body positivity, the next it’s a content creator discussing their decision to undergo cosmetic surgery. Scroll again, and it’s a campaign for anti-ageism, followed by an anti-aging cream ad.
If we are supposed to love our bodies, then what happens if there are certain physical aspects we want to change, and if we do want to make any alterations to our appearance, how do we know when it’s for the right reasons?
The Magical Mirror
Once upon a time, “glamor” referred to a magic spell cast to create an illusion. At one time, celebrities had their own aspirational, somewhat mythical glamor about them. If a famous actor underwent any kind of procedure, they would have been far less candid about it than today.
Since then, social media has had a blurring effect: not just on our own features via clever filters, but between fact and fiction. In the midst of scrolling, it can be easy to forget that while celebrities are no longer quite the mysterious beings they once were, there is a line between the fantasy we see on screen, and what people look like in real life.
Under the Influence
One suggestion for those considering undergoing cosmetic surgery might be to take an extended screen break. While social media has some benefits, it also has a correlation with negative body perception, so some time away could help you get clear on how much online habits are impacting your decision.
IIf you are experiencing pressure from others to get surgery, remember: this is your body, and no one else’s. Besides being highly personal and subjective, cosmetic procedures should be something you do for yourself, and never to please others. If you feel as though you are being pressured, it may help to seek advice from someone impartial such as a therapist.
More than Skin Deep
If you are already dealing with body issues, it might be worth booking an appointment with a therapist before doing anything else. Surgical changes to your body require serious thought and preparation, and it’s important to go in with a sense of clarity about what you want and why.
Prioritizing your mental and emotional health is always important, especially in situations like this. Seeking support from a qualified and licensed health professional could also help boost your self esteem well before your first consultation, and if you do decide to go ahead, you can feel more confident about your choice.
Scope out your Surgeon
Remember that “affordable” doesn’t necessarily guarantee good (or even safe) results: in the hands of underqualified (and even unscrupulous) surgeons, cosmetic surgery procedures can have negative repercussions not just for your appearance, but potentially your health as well, so it’s important not to rush things, or be rushed.
Make sure the surgeon you work with is experienced, properly qualified and has your best interests at heart. A good way to do this is to check for board certification on websites such as ASPS, where you can find a list of professional plastic surgeons (including renowned rhinoplasty expert Dr. Jay Calvert) to book for consultation.
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